Ok, are you engaged... or married or singel and waiting for the One... Well here are some advices from me to YOU!
Men and woman puts this facade and they think everything will be fine economi wise, life wise and facade wise. Already in the early stage of marriage, the faceds disappears and people start to divorce each other... so people; who does not have patience. LIFE is a STRUGGLE, so is MARRIAGE.. it takes two to tango, so HELLO? The marriage is about sacraface, live with the person you choose to love and live your life with. Am not saying that if the man or woman are behaving reaaaaaalllllyy bad you should stay.. Am talking about the small things that people often forget about and makes it a huge deal.
This is to the MEN:
1. MEN if u lived a life of sin, don't forget that the woman you choose to marry hasn't (or maybe) lived u're life, and u should treat her with respect. (She should treat you with respect too)
2. When you have girlfriends and special european ones, you should know.. EUROPEAN BODY--- ARABIC BODY = DIFFRENCES... we do not look the same.. even when we are thin, we still don't have the same body. Just deal with it!
3. To say to your wife that she is fat... come on... where are your abs, I only see a fat belly or a hairy chest! GO TO THE GYM TOGATHER, if u are rich build one in your house (especially does who live in the Middle East and the Gulf. )................ (I want a gym in my house waaa3, anyway!)
4. Sure, apperences is important for us people. But in the long run, it's, the trust, the character and how you two live with each other that matters, because with looks you don't solve problems. With a brain and a kind heart, you both will be winners.
Men and woman puts this facade and they think everything will be fine economi wise, life wise and facade wise. Already in the early stage of marriage, the faceds disappears and people start to divorce each other... so people; who does not have patience. LIFE is a STRUGGLE, so is MARRIAGE.. it takes two to tango, so HELLO? The marriage is about sacraface, live with the person you choose to love and live your life with. Am not saying that if the man or woman are behaving reaaaaaalllllyy bad you should stay.. Am talking about the small things that people often forget about and makes it a huge deal.
Expectations: We are surrounded of movies, media, dreamers and romance etc etc. Well I have to tell people around the world, specially arabs; What you see on tv is only ON TV. Specally turkish tv shows. COME ON ARAB WORLD. WAKE UP! You and your wife can have a beautiful life with struggles of life, it's normal. Noor and Mohanad BULLSHIT (excuse my language). You make IT happen.. Every couple are different, and they work diffrently.. No ONE can be perfect, but put in your mind.. a character you find in others that appeals you, does not mean that this person is better than your spouse. You might be good friends with a man or woman, but it does not mean you will be good for each other as a couple.
This is to the MEN:
1. MEN if u lived a life of sin, don't forget that the woman you choose to marry hasn't (or maybe) lived u're life, and u should treat her with respect. (She should treat you with respect too)
2. When you have girlfriends and special european ones, you should know.. EUROPEAN BODY--- ARABIC BODY = DIFFRENCES... we do not look the same.. even when we are thin, we still don't have the same body. Just deal with it!
3. To say to your wife that she is fat... come on... where are your abs, I only see a fat belly or a hairy chest! GO TO THE GYM TOGATHER, if u are rich build one in your house (especially does who live in the Middle East and the Gulf. )................ (I want a gym in my house waaa3, anyway!)
4. Sure, apperences is important for us people. But in the long run, it's, the trust, the character and how you two live with each other that matters, because with looks you don't solve problems. With a brain and a kind heart, you both will be winners.
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