And now for WOMAN! I am going to give you girls a hard time too! You know why.. Because I want to.. Before I write I want to say, NO ONE IS PERFECT, and we all make mistakes.. however.. we all can be better!
Sooo woman, I don't believe that one should put a facade and pretend to be an "Angel" and then after a few days after marriage you show your true self, and then your husband gets an heart attack. I bealive you can be shy, specially if you are a Muslim, because we shouldn't have boyfriends. And well, we all are shy in the begging, until we feel what we feel ;).
YEAH.... well for some people this work and for some it doesn't. I can not judge, and as I said earlier, every man and woman are different in a way and specially as couples. What works for u wont work for someone else.
Anyway, what I mean with facade is the "I do everything u want-LIES". When one gets married, u are not ONE individual of two.. one are ONE becoming a deeper TWO-IN-ONE. Don't think, HE HAS TO DO EVERYTHING, you both should do something. U are as I mention ONE. If u're husband doesn't work, why do you not work? .. if u're husband can't do something specific, FIX IT! Woman always shout about rights and equals and etc. But when it comes a situation the woman should man up, she refuses and puts the preasure on the man. (ps. i am only speaking in general, because every household have their secrets, so don't take this litteraly).
Sooo woman, I don't believe that one should put a facade and pretend to be an "Angel" and then after a few days after marriage you show your true self, and then your husband gets an heart attack. I bealive you can be shy, specially if you are a Muslim, because we shouldn't have boyfriends. And well, we all are shy in the begging, until we feel what we feel ;).
YEAH.... well for some people this work and for some it doesn't. I can not judge, and as I said earlier, every man and woman are different in a way and specially as couples. What works for u wont work for someone else.
Anyway, what I mean with facade is the "I do everything u want-LIES". When one gets married, u are not ONE individual of two.. one are ONE becoming a deeper TWO-IN-ONE. Don't think, HE HAS TO DO EVERYTHING, you both should do something. U are as I mention ONE. If u're husband doesn't work, why do you not work? .. if u're husband can't do something specific, FIX IT! Woman always shout about rights and equals and etc. But when it comes a situation the woman should man up, she refuses and puts the preasure on the man. (ps. i am only speaking in general, because every household have their secrets, so don't take this litteraly).
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